Comments on: Headshrinking/Heartshrinking http://www.quixoticjedi.com/2009/12/10/headshrinkingheartshrinking/ Tilting at windmills - with a light sabre. Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:21:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Brian http://www.quixoticjedi.com/2009/12/10/headshrinkingheartshrinking/comment-page-1/#comment-1470 Brian Fri, 11 Dec 2009 17:23:38 +0000 http://www.quixoticjedi.com/?p=1809#comment-1470 Loser Loser

]]> By: Being Samiantha http://www.quixoticjedi.com/2009/12/10/headshrinkingheartshrinking/comment-page-1/#comment-1469 Being Samiantha Fri, 11 Dec 2009 16:26:00 +0000 http://www.quixoticjedi.com/?p=1809#comment-1469 Revel in it a bit more, til the holiday season passes anyways. Make a list of deal breakers (if you havent already). Must - like to hike. D-Breaker - fill in the blanks etc. I think tones of people have been in your position before. I know I have. My solution, do nothing. Stopped trying all together. Not to say that anyone is knocking down my door at the moment or my POF account is more active (although it is, I'm getting viewed and added as favorites more since) but I've stopped trying top impress anyone and stopped feeling sorry for myself. I'm single. It's a realitiy. I'm also being more true to the things I want, that make me happy, rather than compromising or forcing myself to be interested in something I'm not. (I could become interested... it happens) People notice that. I'm easier to approach now that my guard is reasonably down. (so I'm told) It will happen for you Ted. I promise. You can hold me to that. Revel in it a bit more, til the holiday season passes anyways. Make a list of deal breakers (if you havent already).
Must – like to hike.
D-Breaker – fill in the blanks etc.

I think tones of people have been in your position before.
I know I have. My solution, do nothing.
Stopped trying all together.

Not to say that anyone is knocking down my door at the moment or my POF account is more active (although it is, I’m getting viewed and added as favorites more since) but I’ve stopped trying top impress anyone and stopped feeling sorry for myself. I’m single. It’s a realitiy.

I’m also being more true to the things I want, that make me happy, rather than compromising or forcing myself to be interested in something I’m not. (I could become interested… it happens)

People notice that. I’m easier to approach now that my guard is reasonably down. (so I’m told)

It will happen for you Ted. I promise. You can hold me to that.

]]> By: Katie http://www.quixoticjedi.com/2009/12/10/headshrinkingheartshrinking/comment-page-1/#comment-1468 Katie Fri, 11 Dec 2009 13:53:54 +0000 http://www.quixoticjedi.com/?p=1809#comment-1468 1) Don't approach chicks at the laundromat it's creepy. I don't want some dude hitting on my while i'm separating my delicates. (It's happened and it's weird) 2)When you figure this all out can you let me in on the secret. I'm pretty comfy where I am and I don't know if that's a good thing either. 1) Don’t approach chicks at the laundromat it’s creepy. I don’t want some dude hitting on my while i’m separating my delicates. (It’s happened and it’s weird)

2)When you figure this all out can you let me in on the secret. I’m pretty comfy where I am and I don’t know if that’s a good thing either.

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