Comments on: Not Ready for a Relationship? http://www.quixoticjedi.com/2009/07/14/not-ready-for-a-relationship/ Tilting at windmills - with a light sabre. Tue, 27 Jul 2010 23:30:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Being Samiantha http://www.quixoticjedi.com/2009/07/14/not-ready-for-a-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-961 Being Samiantha Tue, 14 Jul 2009 15:04:02 +0000 http://www.quixoticjedi.com/?p=1277#comment-961 My friends tell me all the time. "stop thinking so black and white, have fun with it" ugh. easy for them to say. I'm of the attitude, all or nothing, and then I find myself single. I do not particularly like to date casually to pass the time anymore, but isn't that how we get to that exclusive place we all want? I have to remind myself of that often. I have no advice for you. Just do whatever feels right for you at the time. That's it. That's all I have to offer. My friends tell me all the time. “stop thinking so black and white, have fun with it” ugh. easy for them to say.

I’m of the attitude, all or nothing, and then I find myself single. I do not particularly like to date casually to pass the time anymore, but isn’t that how we get to that exclusive place we all want? I have to remind myself of that often.

I have no advice for you. Just do whatever feels right for you at the time. That’s it. That’s all I have to offer.

]]> By: BRIAN http://www.quixoticjedi.com/2009/07/14/not-ready-for-a-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-960 BRIAN Tue, 14 Jul 2009 13:39:34 +0000 http://www.quixoticjedi.com/?p=1277#comment-960 Instead of trying to analyze your next relationship to figure out if she is the "one" and if you're going to marry her or break up if you think it's all just a waste of time maybe you should just try and have some fun. If you're dating a girl that must mean you like her a little bit. How can you see the future to know you're not gonna marry her after dating for a little bit? Forget about marriage and kids until you've been with an individual for at least 2 years. Instead of trying to analyze your next relationship to figure out if she is the “one” and if you’re going to marry her or break up if you think it’s all just a waste of time maybe you should just try and have some fun. If you’re dating a girl that must mean you like her a little bit. How can you see the future to know you’re not gonna marry her after dating for a little bit? Forget about marriage and kids until you’ve been with an individual for at least 2 years.

]]> By: Cheryl http://www.quixoticjedi.com/2009/07/14/not-ready-for-a-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-959 Cheryl Tue, 14 Jul 2009 08:20:40 +0000 http://www.quixoticjedi.com/?p=1277#comment-959 Coming from the position of a Smug Married (bad movie reference) I can only offer the same lame advice: it will happen when you least expect it. Also? It will come from the most unlikely place. I know whereof I speak. My husband is not anything like who I thought I would be married to, and we met in a pretty random way. Today's our 3rd wedding anniversary (5th year together) so I can't say as I'm complaining. :) I think you should do more Mensa activities. Just MO. Coming from the position of a Smug Married (bad movie reference) I can only offer the same lame advice: it will happen when you least expect it. Also? It will come from the most unlikely place.

I know whereof I speak. My husband is not anything like who I thought I would be married to, and we met in a pretty random way. Today’s our 3rd wedding anniversary (5th year together) so I can’t say as I’m complaining. :)

I think you should do more Mensa activities. Just MO.

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