Comments on: Would You Cheat?

By: Tomers

Tomers — Tue, 26 May 2009 16:10:16 +0000

I’m with you Ted. I would be tempted if women were throwing themselves at me, but I would have a very hard time actually doing it. I would have to either be really angry with my wife or my guilt reflex would have to be drowning in alcohol. More likely I would call my wife and ask her permission to cheat on her. Ha! As if I could ever actually make that phone call.

By: Erin

Erin — Fri, 22 May 2009 19:59:03 +0000

Wow I had a dream last night that my husband cheated on me, too; with a prostitute, no less. In my dream I clearly remember thinking to myself, “this is it….I can never look back and there is no chance of ever repairing this.” There have been other issues in the past, so I guess this was the last straw. But the feeling was so clear that I didn’t think I would ever be able to get past it. Now I myself couldn’t do it. I guess, like Ted and Christof have indicated, it’s just not me. But man do I love to flirt. Is that bad?

By: The Naked Redhead

The Naked Redhead — Fri, 22 May 2009 16:34:39 +0000

Good questions…I’ve often pondered over this issue myself. I’ve responded with my thoughts over on my blog!

By: Cheryl

Cheryl — Fri, 22 May 2009 11:46:38 +0000

Last night I had a dream that my husband cheated on me. The first time was forgivable (I don’t know how “dream me” came to that conclusion) but the second time he was unrepentant. When I woke up at 4:30 I wanted to kick him. Really hard. But I didn’t. I think he’s one of those guys I can’t imagine ever cheating on me. I hope.

By: Christof

Christof — Fri, 22 May 2009 05:24:16 +0000

I think there are many angles to this argument, While true, honesty is a virtue that has almost died like the knights of yore, men have a status to live up to these days and sadly that status is not one best befitting them.

I find it quizzical most times when guys act the sexual flamboyant fools while a ring sits snugly around their finger.

yet women expect nothing less, once a man is married he becomes fair game to the single girl…. he becomes the challenge, a war that must be won as it were.

I’m married and have been for coming on 10 years, so many times have I had the opportunity to cheat but never had the desire…isn’t that why we get married?

Still with my proud vocal achievements they are still cast aside by the female eyes of doubt.

It’s a sad no win situation that many men finally give up the fight over and decide to enjoy that single moment of physical huffing and puffing, regardless of the ramifications…strangely sex brings out the “Screw the next day” attitude…I blame the pheromones.

Don’t get me wrong there is many a woman that I see downtown and think “God Damn!” but I still turn around and go about my day, it’s down to individuals and how much respect they have for their spouse….actually I take that back, it’s down to how much respect they have for themselves.

Anyone can cheat like anyone can kill another human being, yet when it comes to taking a life most of us don’t…..because we know it’s wrong, like we know cheating is wrong……to a point.

We are bred to fail, just look up to the stars and you’ll see the truth…well the Hollywood stars at least, boys grow up believing it is their lot in life to be two things…. the bread winning faithful or the player.

Tell me if you were in your teens, which one would look more fun?

As I mentioned on Twitter while I read your Blog, two 9ish year old kids ran through the car park, the boy was in front laughing aloud as the girl was close behind waving her arms wildly and screamed over and over “Cheater!”

Kind of says it all really….at least for me.